Virtual Iced Coffee Date

Have a seat friends and refill that cup of coffee or iced coffee, because it’s time for a virtual coffee date. A lot has transpired since our last date together. Bo is back in New York City, loving every minute of his new job, and I’m finishing up the final days of work in Geneva. I just arrived in New York City for a quick four-day house-hunting trip. To say that I’m feeling emotional, these days would be an understatement.

If we were sitting together, sipping iced coffees, I’d probably have a hard time staying focused on a single thought, instead talking about a range of topics. I feel pretty scattered these days, but I hear talking helps provide clarity, so here goes.

If we were sipping iced coffee together today,  I’d tell you that yesterday I cried uncontrollably in front of strangers. I went to the Office Cantonal de la Population (Geneva City Population Office) to get my Letter of Attestation, or proof that I am leaving the country on June 27th. As soon as the kind woman gave me the letter, complete with letter press seal, I completely lost it. As much as I know we’re leaving at the right time and for the right reasons, it doesn’t make the decision to leave our friends, beautiful country, and Geneva.

If we were sipping iced coffee together today, I’d tell you that I bought a portable charger for my iPhone a few weeks ago for $19, and it has been a complete game changer. If you’re always finding your phone with 5% battery, just as you’re supposed to use Google Maps to find the bar where you’re meeting a friend or post that next picture on Instagram, go to Amazon and order one today!

If we were sipping iced coffee together today, I’d tell you that I haven’t seen Pitch Perfect 2 yet but I downloaded the soundtrack on iTunes as soon as it was released. I don’t typically listen to the album as a whole, but I love when one of the songs pops up during a run. The upbeat mash-ups make the pace drop and leave me with a silly smile. Back to Basics, though only 1:31 long, is my favorite song of the soundtrack.  For those of you who have seen it already, how is the movie? As good as the first one?

If we were sipping iced coffee together today, I’d tell you that a friend of mine has decided to take control of his life and focus a bit more on getting healthy. I am elated that he’s allowing me to coach and motivate him on this journey. Nothing makes me happier than supporting him via daily text messages. To make things more manageable, we are only focusing on one change per week and weighing in once a week. It’s all about the small changes friends! So far he is down 10 pounds – more than 4% of his starting body weight! 

If we were sipping iced coffee together today, I’d tell you that Sunday afternoon I spent two hours on the couch folding clothes and watching a movie. Flipping through iTunes and Netflix in search of something light, the smoldering face of Christian Grey tempted me to push rent on Fifty Shades of Grey. Oh, my word ladies. I love my husband, but I’d say that Jamie Dornan has officially replaced Ryan Gosling for the top spot on my list of hot actors. Yes, I watched the movie and no I’m not sorry. Some people watch hours of Real Housewives or other reality television. I do, however, hope that they can build a bit more chemistry in the second movie because these two characters did not seem to work.  Am I the only one who gave into temptation and watched this movie, regardless the number of splats it received on Rotten Tomatoes?

If we were sipping iced coffee together today, I’d tell you that the past year was stressful. We were managing through a lot of change and uncertainty together. Unfortunately, this stress has resulted in more than a few gray hairs. I just counted three while washing my hands in the bathroom. No bueno friends. I’ve always banked on the fact that I’d have my moms luck and not fight gray hair until my 40s.

If we were sipping iced coffee together today, I’d tell you that we’ve started the hunt for a perfect apartment, and while exciting, it’s also proving quite stressful. Since we want to call this apartment home for at least three to five years, there is an added stress to find a great one. This time around we know what we want in an apartment and neighborhood.  We learned during our time in Geneva that outdoor space and an updated kitchen are important. Since I’m going to work from home, two bedrooms is important. We love Brooklyn and our preferred neighborhoods, but so far everything on Street Easy seems to be facing one of the major streets. I’m sure there will be quite a few stressful moments during June and July as we hunt for a perfect spot. If you live or have visited Brooklyn, what is your favorite restaurant or coffee shop?

If we were sipping iced coffee together today, I’d tell you that for the past year I’ve sworn by shellac nails, preaching their longevity to everyone. I insisted that they weren’t weakening my nails, even though almost any article I read online or in beauty magazines said to give your nails a break every few months. Looks like my nails are SCREAMING for help as they are constantly breaking. I’m going to try TenOverTen this week in New York, opting for their organic manicure and pedicure instead of shellac.

If we were sipping iced coffee together today, I’d tell you that I lost myself in Andie Mitchell’s memoir, It Was Me All Along, this weekend. I read the entire book in less than 48 hours, finding myself in each of her pages. Unbeknownst to many of you, I spent my childhood binge eating Halloween candy and other sweet treats, hiding the wrappers deep in my family’s garbage can or in other hiding spots. I’ll never forget my embarrassment when my parents found over 50 candy wrappers floating under our sofa after our water heater burst, flooding our house with water. The emotions she describes so clearly and eloquently in her memoir are a must read for anyone who has gained and lost weight while building a new appreciation for food.

If we were sipping iced coffee together today, I’d tell you that people ask me what I will miss most about living in Europe and Geneva. I have a hard time pinpointing just one thing, but ask me what I won’t miss, and I can easily answer that question. Living in Geneva, where many people’s native tongue is French, has been especially frustrating over the past year. For the first few months, everyone speaks in English, often giving you a pass since you’re new and still learning. But, now, I’ve found myself in more than one social situation feeling lonely and isolated because I can’t comprehend their conversations. Never before have I felt so lonely and incompetent. Balancing the level of study required to master French lessons just wasn’t possible while balancing a relationship, blog, expat life, traveling, work and an active lifestyle. I could sit here and wish things were different, but instead I’m sharing this experience with you guys and moving on.

If we were sipping iced coffee together today, I’d tell you that for the past few months, I came home each night to delicious meals, cooked and created by Bo. Cooking is a passion of his and was a great way to take his mind off the frustrations of the job search.  Though I’ve missed these meals the past two weeks, I have LOVED getting back in the kitchen. I’ve rekindled my friendships with the market vendors while choosing the freshest vegetables and fruits. I love the gratification that comes from creating a delicious meal, even when it is a simple Summer salad.

 

So, if we were having iced coffee today, what would you share with me?

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Virtual Cappuccino Date

Over the years, I’ve read multiple {Virtual} coffee or wine date posts from my favorite bloggers. These posts, along with Day in The Life posts, tend to be my favorite type of post, as they welcome readers into the person’s life and helps us get to know them better.

Since any of my friends know that my drink of choice since moving abroad is a cappuccino, why don’t you join me today for our first cappuccino date.

If we were sipping a cappuccino together today, I’d tell you that putting myself on a shopping ban has been tough but beneficial. As I’d rather spend money on traveling, I told myself that between Christmas and the next time I’m in the United States, late March, that I wouldn’t shop. There should be no reason I need to shop during this three month period as I have a full closet and overflowing drawers. The urge to wear new things has forced me to dig into my closet and dresser, putting new outfits together and discovering items I forgot I even owned! I finally went through my workout drawers and donated any piece of workout gear that I avoid wearing. We all have this don’t we – a couple of tanks or shorts that don’t fit the way we like and are pushed aside each day when we go to grab an outfit. I donated two bags of tanks, shorts, spandex and sports bras!

If we were sipping a cappuccino together today, I’d tell you that I love how my girlfriends and I have been creative with finding time to catch up. Over the past few months, it’s been virtually impossible to find a night that works for girls’ night dinner. But, instead of letting that mean that we don’t see each other, we’ve met before work for coffee at our favorite coffee shop, gone to yoga or spin together, or hit the pavement for a few pre-work miles. While I love our dinner dates, I’m finding this one on one time even more valuable.

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If we were sipping a cappuccino together today, I’d tell you how thankful I am for a running coach. Jess has made training an absolute pleasure so far, and she truly is our biggest cheerleader. Since this is her full time job, she can respond quickly to emails and last minute questions before workouts. She’s also worked to create a wonderful family of runners through her #racepacerunners emails and newsletters.

If we were sipping a cappuccino together today, I’d tell you that Bo and I are traveling each of the next seven weeks. While it will be fun and I’m excited to see new places like Venice & Barcelona it can still be overwhelming. Typically this would be exhausting and result in more than a few extra pounds around my waistline. But, Bo and I are finding that by eating clean Monday through Thursday, we can enjoy our weekends away, tasting and eating the local cuisine, without gaining weight or feeling over indulgent. Investing in a coach and training plan is also helping me stay accountable to make time for each of my workouts.

If we were sipping a cappuccino together today, I’d tell you that I never cease to be amazed at the cost of living in Geneva, especially in regards to the price of food. Our friends were shocked last week that just a few bags of ski weekend groceries cost almost 300 CHF. Keep in mind, 1 CHF = 1.06 USD, so the exchange is virtually 1:1. The prices in our basic grocery stores, such as COOP and Migros, make Whole Foods seem like a discount grocery store.

If we were sipping a cappuccino together today, I’d tell you that lately Bo and I have become obsessed with soups and stews. Each week he makes a big batch so we can enjoy it for two nights then freeze the leftovers. There is no easier Sunday meal after a weekend of traveling than defrosted soup, salad and hunk of bread. In fact, last night’s beef & barley stew may be our new favorite.

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If we were sipping a cappuccino together today, I’d tell you that while I love my laptop and iPhone, I’ve started writing things down more and more. For some reason I find that I can think through my thoughts easier when they are on paper. Today alone, I outlined this post and an upcoming presentation on paper before transferring to PowerPoint and LiveWriter.

If we were sipping a cappuccino together today, I’d tell you that while I know that Geneva’s winter has been nothing versus New York City or the rest of the east coast, I’m still craving warmth, sunshine and water.  I’ve already requested a family boating day when I’m in Savannah next month.

If we were sipping a cappuccino together today, I’d tell you that I have enjoyed experimenting with my hair lately. I typically blow dry it each day then run a straightener or serum through it, ridding it of any frizz and wave. But, more often than not, I’m wearing it wavy since I’m lazy and tired of spending thirty minutes in the bathroom blow drying and straightening my hair. This weekend I may go for something a bit more polished, as Courtney’s post inspired me to try to curl my hair with my straightener.  If I don’t burn my hair off while attempting to curl it, hopefully, this will make me feel more put together and stylish for our date night in Venice, the City of Love.

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How about you, what would you tell me if we were sipping a cappuccino together today?

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